Cheating on someone is bad whether they are a horrible person or a good person.
The problem with cheating is that so many people do it and try to convince themselves that they are fine after deceiving someone. But are they really; seriously, let’s take things seriously people!
What is love, it’s not a word that can be explained, or even expressed wholeheartedly, because according to Tina Turner Love is “but a second-hand emotion.”
So, in turn, do you believe you loved the person, to not cheat on them as well as did you love the person enough to not push them to cheat. Those are literally the two sides of the coin.
For example, you have done all you can to make your partner happy and content. And, yes, at times you get into arguments, but you choose to bury the hatchet because you hate being mad at each other. Yet, even though you did all you can, to be happy, they still cheated on you. That is a betrayal!
With that betrayal its always the same excuses:
1. It didn’t mean anything.
2. Blame it on the Alchohol.
3. Nothing happened, I promise.
4. “Honesty”; All that happened was oral.
5. It won’t ever happen again, scouts honor.
Example #2, your partner has done everything besides throwing the kitchen sink at you to push you away; they belittle you and make comments that aren’t so nice about your family, and expect you to be loyal; when they themselves are breaking relationship rules. What do you expect someone to do?
Of course, I do not condone cheating when someone is horrible to you. Rather than cheat walk away and then find someone who will love you, not belittle you, and many more; after a good reviewing of yourself. Just so you can be ready to be in a relationship and be ready to have love and respect come towards you.
The worst thing is to be in a relationship with someone who does not respect you because all they are going to do is lower your self-esteem and take full control of you.
“YOU ARE BETTER THAN THE SUM OF YOUR PARTS”
So please do not cheat all you doing is causing a storm that doesn’t need to be started.